Notes from Sam
Mental Health Articles from Sam Rustum
Thoughts on anxiety, boundaries, and making space for what matters, sometimes through an unexpected lens.

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When Gambling Stops Feeling Like a Game
Recognize gambling harms, consider practical first steps, and find support for yourself or someone you care about.
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People Pleasing: 3 Ways to Set Boundaries
Practice pausing before saying yes, expressing clear limits, and making room for your own needs.
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3 Ways to Work on Perfectionism
Explore realistic expectations, the rules behind the pressure, and a life beyond performance.
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3 Practical Tips for Managing Anxiety
Try manageable ways to pause, question worried predictions, and build supportive routines.
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3 Practical Tips for Managing Adult ADHD
Make starting easier with smaller steps, visible reminders, and a setting that supports your attention.
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5 Everyday Ways to Manage Anxiety in Chicago
Five practical starting points for managing worry, work pressure, and a busy Chicago routine.
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5 Tips for Handling Family Interactions During the Holidays
Prepare for personal questions, set realistic boundaries, and make room to recover after gatherings.
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5 Ways to Cope With Loneliness During the Holidays
Explore manageable ways to find connection and care when the holidays feel lonely.
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5 Tips for Managing Anxiety in Chicago
Explore practical ideas for managing anxiety while navigating everyday life in Chicago.
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Gamifying Your Boundaries
Using video game strategies to think about healthy limits.
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Your Mental Health as a Math Equation
A different way to think about balancing the variables in your life.
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You may recognize a familiar problem in more than one article. Work stress can sit alongside worry, self-criticism, or difficulty saying no. Start with the piece that describes a recent moment in your life, rather than trying to find a label that explains everything.
Choose one question to carry with you
As you read, notice what feels familiar and what does not. You might write down a sentence you want to think about, a question you would like to ask, or one small change you want to consider. You do not need to turn every suggestion into another task to complete.
When you want a conversation
An article cannot take account of your whole situation. If a pattern keeps coming up, therapy offers room to discuss the circumstances around it, what you have already tried, and what you want to be different. The treatment pages explain the concerns I work with. You can also request a free 15-minute consultation to ask about fit.
A place to begin
Let’s make room for what you need.
A free 15-minute consultation gives us a chance to talk about what is difficult, answer your questions, and consider whether working together fits what you need.

